I was at a coffee shop yesterday and when BigSal got up to go to the bathroom, and there was four women sitting at the next table who were having this discussion about what ‘bits’ they found attractive in men.
One of them, Ms Gregarious UncomfortableShoes was adamant that she looks for a nice butt in a guy, and that she’s found herself mesmerized watching guys walk in the street if she thought they had a great arse…. predictable thinks I… lots of chicks seem have a thing for arses though, personally I know not why.
Another, Ms LaughsTooLoud and OrangeIsn’tReallyHerColour chimes in with a whimsical insistence that it’s all in their eyes for her… that she likes kind eyes and says you can tell so much about a man from looking into his eyes…. my internal monologue starts with the vomit noises at this disclosure… I’d put money on her being a Whitney Huston fan….. or or , maybe even Mariah! 😐 Where’s BigSal, come rescue me from this drivel!
Ms BigHaired Hasn’tGrownUpAsMuchAsHerFriends tries to shock them with a description of how she likes guys with big scholongs, and how you never know what you’re gonna get until it’s too late story, cos sometimes “the skinny ones have more than you’d expect you know” and a run down on the well worn correlation to feet size gambit, causing her friends look askance at each other…. nice little bit of oversharing there luvvy!
Last chickie, Ms PrimNProper WhiteSlacks says she just likes really handsome men, with chiselled good looks, and (dont get this) cant resist a guy in a chucky knit wool sweater!…. what the? Hmmm… yeah, visions of smelly fisherman’s jumpers … dead sexy… though I think her picture probably involved designer label jeans and expensive deck shoes….
Anyway, got me thinking…. what sorts of things do i find initially attractive in men… Normally the first thing I tend to notice i think is someone’s eyes. but largely just to see if there’s something in there ticking away behind ’em 🙂 Next is probably what they have to say… am far more engaged by what someone has to say than what they look like, helps a lot if there’s an off kilter sense of humour, and an interesting intellect … oh and bonus if there’s a deep masculine voice attached… some men have voices that just resonate with you for some reason… hmmm. Vin Diesel Voice!!! 😉
Other than that, I like hands. 😐 I’m not sure I can verbalize what I like about mens hands, but I do know that I always tend to look at them… a lot, and I find men particularly attractive who appear to have large capable looking hands. Not sure why that is… but hands are something that I always check out. (Shrug?) I like the way the way my hands feel tiny in someone else’s (which they kinda are), and it absolutely turns me on to have my hands softly played with and carressed!! Hmmm… Something totally sensuous and purely erotic about that one! In the past I’ve had occasions where I’ve just looked at some man’s hands and wanted get naked with him so I can just feel his hands on my skin! Didn’t matter what the rest of him is doing/saying… That’s a little weird right? :S
